Here’s How you Get Out of the Friend Zone
Stop being so grumpy!
Have you seen how you’ve been acting lately? Be careful not to sound like a grumpy old man, because no one wants to date someone who spreads bad vibes. Here’s a friendly tip: if you want that girl to be your girlfriend instead of just a friend, be more positive, smile more and save all that moping around for your therapist!
Have a makeover
It’s not that you don’t look attractive already, (well, maybe you don’t) but when it comes to getting out of the friend zone, you should try to get out of your comfort zone to get her attention. For example, you can change up your look by getting a haircut you would never dare, replace your glasses with lenses… Your friend will think that you’re deep and mysterious, and that’s what we’re aiming for!
Lose touch just a bit
When you’re standing next to the same person your whole life, you won’t be able to really SEE them. We know, we know… this part is the worst, but when you’re suddenly taking your distance from your friend, she’ll notice that you’re an important part in her life. The more you lose touch, the more she’ll think about you and miss you! But don’t over-do it; you don’t want her to hate you for leaving her for no reason.
Just tell her how you feel
You could save all the trouble by skipping all the previous steps and just straight up confess your feelings. In case you’re not up for it, you could always proceed step by step… no pressure!
Basically, you have to be really smooth and subtle while confessing. Definitely not over a text, and never, ever in your whole life do it when you’re drunk and out of control. Here’s the best confession scenario: do it in person, in a quiet and private place while both of you are sober and fully conscious.